A Testimoanial for Ms Cecilia
The submissive’s testimony: Bootslave William
As the slut owned and controlled by my Goddess who has contributed the bulk of our testimony, I have been given permission to make the following comments.
I confirm and agree with every word She has written. Orgasm denial in general, and more specifically the practical assistance which Mistress Cecilia in particular, but also Miss Trish, afford us as a FemDom
couple have played, and very much continue to play, an important role in helping my Goddess to assert ever greater control over me, and in developing further my
submission. Thank you Cock Control. At this point, I want to state that this organisation has on its staff some exceptionally knowledgeable,talented,intelligent and highly sexy Women, experts in the specialised field of
understanding, manipulating and controlling us males through that greatest weak spot of ours, that which rules us to such a degree, and which we are so blatantly incapable of self-discipline towards: the COCK!
To those reading this, male and Female, I urge you all to embrace (in addition to that essential, male chastity) the power of complete cock control and orgasm denial. I say, enthusiastically: SURRENDER to Female control of the cock. Males are unfit to control it themselves. The
control I am experiencing now, after so many years of craving it (albeit the wrong way, namely in my male fantasies) is immeasurably more exciting and fulfilling than the sneaky wanking, on and off the phone/Internet, that became an obsession for me. As it says on the Cock Control site, orgasm denial IS keeping me “in line�. I can vouch for that for I am living this reality now and there is no turning back, EVER. I have been literally
freed from the tyrannical rule of that item between my legs. With the total prevention of masturbation and sexual release, except for when my Goddess allows it, I am able to much better concentrate on my principal duty:
to serve my Dominant completely, always seeking to improve my servitude to Her.
Yes, one has to overcome those silly male fantasy concepts of chastity and orgasm denial and, yes, it can be tough when the full meaning of one’s commitment to this lifestyle hits home: NO MORE unauthorised wanking,
NO MORE say as to whether orgasm occurs or not. Yet the benefits are simply undeniable.
Fellow males, set aside your fantasies. If you have a partner, show her this testimony and the Cock Control site. Somehow, try to overcome your
apprehension about her possible reaction…introduce the subject patiently and gently. When she decides to try out, or even embrace the philosophy that my Goddess and I are living for real, just SUBMIT and do not rebel. Like me, you will find yourself at peace far more than before control was taken away from you. It is what males want and need. Your surrendering control of that cock does not even need to be as profound an undertaking as in our
case, certainly not initially at least (although always beware of the power that lies dormant within Women once it is unleashed). Chastity and orgasm denial
are in themselves extremely sexy and kinky activities to enjoy with one’s loved one, and all the more so in a lovely three-a-side call with two determined Women teaming up against you!
Orgasm denial in practice has been an immense and crucial revelation to both my Goddess and myself. For Her, it is a mighty weapon, one of the pillars of Her Dominance, that She can wield to Her heart’s content to torment and
tease me, punish me, train me to be patient and undemanding, make me obey and accept Her will, to make me serve Her in a totally focused and unselfish way (from the most mundane of tasks to the ultimate altar of
worshipping and pleasuring Her body).
All of this benefits me too as a male. I absolutely accept that I have no say whatsoever over when and if I will orgasm. I understand that my main purpose is to serve my Goddess, that Her pleasure, in whatever form,
comes first. Sexual matters are utterly out of my control, forever. I have become sexually undemanding even though I am randier than ever, yes, but I now know
that not orgasming for a few weeks will not kill me! I no longer obsess about cumming. I know I have to wait. I am a sexual possession.There is still room for improvement, there always is with male submission.
Is all this extreme? No way! I am experiencing the very control that so many males (I believe ALL males ultimately, if they were true to themselves
and let themselves be shown the way) crave, most especially within the reality of a loving relationship.
Go on, do it!
Thank You, Mistress Cecilia!
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This is the Wife’s testimony
I am a Dominant woman with a highly submissive partner. We have been together for more than 20 years and are deeply in love. We have always had a great and varied sex life, and in the last few years have explored Female
Domination increasingly, to the point where it has become central to our life.
As is usually the case with submissive males, the person I shall refer to as My slut was always ahead of Me craving more Domination and control, full of his silly male fantasies. Whilst I enjoyed FemDom, I did not really
know how I could move things further and more seriously into a lifestyle situation.
Yet I wanted to exert far more control as I knew that My slut, always a habitual masturbator, had developed an absolute obsession with wanking (3-4 times a day on average, sometimes 6 times!!) a situation that worsened
with his increased and unrestrained use of the Internet. Furthermore, he had, over the years, listened from time to time to Domination stories on the phone, which progressed to live calls with telephone Dommes. This was
not only wrong in its own right but also costly. He did not really hide much of this cock and telephone misbehaviour. I felt I let him get away with
it for too long, but I repeat that I did not really know how to rein him in.
Not until I discovered male CHASTITY!! This was something I knew excited him, again from his male fantasy point of view, and it certainly interested Me too. We discussed it and, to cut a long story short, I placed him in chastity (CB3000 intially although he is currently in the CB2000) and the fantasy is now a permanent reality. This development was absolutely essential to My gaining control of him. There were unfortunately a couple of
bouts of wanking (he managed to escape from his chastity and so he now wears the Points of Intrigue device for full security) and telephone misbehaviour (he carried on for a while, so insatiable was what was still then his
craving for even mental stimulation). I still had a lot of work to do to gain full control over, not only My slut’s body but, more importantly his sexual mind too! I believe it is essential to control these to further
enslave one’s submissive and render him fully obedient, with one aim: to serve his Goddess/Mistress.
Enter www.cockcontrol.com! This was a site that had fascinated My slut for ages, and when he had been in a position to wank over the phone in mid-2006
(for the very last time, I guarantee), lying disgracefully about his personal situation, he got to meet Mistress Cecilia. So full of guilt was he
that he confessed to Me his misdeeds, in tears. After exploring their truly great, classy and informative site with its genuine emphasis on Female Domination, a site which sets the standard for telephone Domination, and
especially after reading about their orgasm control programmes, I decided to contact and involve Mistress Cecilia.
I would add here that I have read an awful lot of material about real Female Domination, all of which gave me a lot of practical ammunition. I already knew that orgasm denial is a key component in controlling the male. It keeps him motivated, focused and eager to please. Too many orgasms result in laziness and greed for more! As is often said: control the cock and you control the male. It is absolutely true and I advise any woman in my
position to embrace this concept. However, I felt unable to instigate this on my own. Another thing I have discovered is that women like me need the help and support of other Dominant women. Mistress Cecilia has given me, and is giving me, her back-up and sharing her experience, very enthusiastically I might add. We have now completed two orgasm denial programmes with
her, during which she has repeatedly controlled My slut through a multitude of stroking exercises, edging him constantly and denying him orgasm. I have learnt many of these exercises and, in between lessons, I carried out
more sessions with him, as advised by Cecilia. I now subject him, as and when required, to controlled stroking sessions, after which he may or may not be allowed to cum. The longest he has gone without orgasm was about 4
weeks. Not bad after an average of 3-4 wanks a day!! These exercises are also training him in endurance so that I can fuck him to My heart’s content without allowing him release. Although there has been some progress in delaying his ejaculations, there is still a lot of work to be done where this is concerned and I am looking forward to My collaboration with Cecilia
(and I must also mention her wonderful colleague Trish) bearing fruit in the long run. It seems a long way away, but it is My aim to train My slut to only cum on command in the future. I have happily offered the slut as a
guinea pig for Mistress Cecilia to practice her hypnosis training on.
She is also monitoring him through his blog. I regularly witness the control she so easily exerts over him: his weakness is a sight to behold. We are continuing with regular phone sessions with both ladies and I plan on signing him up for the circuit training in due course. No orgasm for weeks then!!!
I could not have foreseen what has happened. My Domination has grown immeasurably and his submission is deepening all the time, in no small measure thanks to orgasm denial and the philosophy of Cock Contol. The
tables have been turned completely and irreversibly.
Dearest Ms Ally;
Ms. Ally -
Paige…oh my, what a phone call. She was a dream. Stirring, soft, sensual but all the while firmly directing timid me as I described my fantasies of slipping on sexy panties and exploring. Paige left me so hot that I turned dizzy as we talked. And when I finally exploded it was amazing. Paige is wonderful. To her, I’m Daja. At her urging, a shopping trip is coming. And panties, lacy frills and toys will be added. Our next call will sizzle and I can’t wait to see what she’ll suggest for Daja next time.